Expect and live a happy life ahead 

​Imagine there is a bank account that credits your account each morning with $86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day.

Every evening the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course?

Each of us has such a bank. It’s name is TIME.

Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.

Every night it writes off as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to a good purpose.

It carries over no balance. It allows no over draft. Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the remains of the day.

If you fail to use the day’s deposits, the loss is yours. There is no drawing against “tomorrow.”

You must live in the present on today’s deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success!

The clock is running!! Make the most of today.
To realise the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed a grade.
To realise the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.
To realise the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.
To realise the value of ONE HOUR, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.
To realise the value of ONE MINUTE, ask a person who just missed a train.
To realise the value of ONE SECOND, ask someone who just avoided an accident.
To realise the value of ONE MILLISECOND, ask the person who won a silver medal at the Olympics.
Treasure every moment that you have! And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time with. And remember time waits for no one.
Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why its called the present.

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Short Temper Could Be Regret For Life For Husband & Wife

​I am 32 years old.  My ex hubby dated me for six years, I started dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were the  best of friends. I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (Now 7 years old ).
My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare him that if you wish divorce me- I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look as a loser in his eyes.
One day I pushed him to the limit  so  that for the first time he beat me up and locked me out of the house , I returned  to my family, and they took him to the  police to  lay a charge., Every time people saw me , I looked like I was being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.
He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the limits. Of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will look like am begging him for another  chance, and my sisters believed he is faking the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in hospital, after he was discharged , I just received a  summon for a divorce . I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and said to him that  he will get the divorce because I live like I  am in hell.
When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be divided between us. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I  acquired together should be given to me, All he wanted was a divorce.
We divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about me, I depend financially on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful how and who you get advice from . Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much more respected than I am. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me.

There is no benefit in pride!

Source – Unknown
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This a perfect example and advice  for those dancing in some overrated ego. Share it with your friends.

Hawwa Ki Baiti (Urdu) 

​آج صبح سے ہی موسم خشگوار ہے شاید اسی لئےگوگا مرغ چنے جو ماڈل ٹاون میں واقع ہےکا ناشتا کرنے کا من کیا۔ گھر سے اپنی گاڑی نکال کر موسم کو انجوائے کرتا ہوا گوگا چنے پہنچا۔ میرے وہاں پہنچتے ہی ایک ویٹر جو کہ عمومن میرے لیے ناشتا میز پر لگاتا ہے فوراًُ آیا اور میز صاف کر کہ ناشتا لگوا کر لے آیا۔ 

                 بارش بہت تیز ہو چکی تھی،میں موسم کے ساتھ ساتھ لذیذ ناشتے سے بھی لطف اندوز ہو رہا تھا، اسی دوران ایک میاں بیوی (جو کہ شاید نو بیہتا جوڑاتھا) بارش میں مذید بھیگنے سے بچنے کے لئے گوگا چنے والے کے سامنے  اپنی موٹر سائکل پارک کر کہ سائبان کے نیچے کھڑے ہو گئے۔ بارش کافی تیز تھی اسی لیے وہ جوڑا مکمل بارش میں بھیگ چکا تھا۔

                  اتفاق سے میں نے ویٹر کو بل منگوانے کے لئے جب آواز دی تو وه موصوف آنکھیں پھاڈ پھاڈ کر حوّا کی مجبور بیٹی کو اپنی آنکھوں کی حوّس کا نشانہ بنا رہا تھا۔ ذیاده افسوس تب ہوا جب میں نے دیکھا کہ وہاں پر موجود ہر شخص اسی خاتون کی طرف نظریں جمائے ہوئے تھا۔ 

                   اس حوّا کی بیٹی کو شائد یہ بھی معلوم نہ تھا کہ کتنے بھیڑئے شکاری کی نظر سے اسے دیکھ رہے ہیں۔  ایمان کا تو یہ عالم تھا کہ ایک شخص اپنی لالچی نظروں سے مسکراتے ہوئے اس خاتون کی طرف آس پاس کے لوگوں کی توجہ مرکوز کروا رہا تھا اور ساتھ استغفرالللہ کا ورد کئے جا رہا تھا۔ کیش کائونٹر پر  ایک شخص جو کہ سر پر ٹوپی اور ہاتھ میں تسبیح لئے بیٹھا تھا اچانک بولا ” یا الللہ ہور بارش پا”

کائونٹر پر بل ادا کر کہ باہر نکلتے وقت میرے ذہن میں ایک ہی بات گردش کر رہی تھی کہ کاش یہی وقت ایک دن ان لوگوں پر آئے، پھر انکو احساس ہو کہ اپنی عزت جب ایسے بھوکے بھیڑیوں کی نظروں کا شکار ہوتی ہے تو کیسا محسوس ہوتا ہے۔

                                                   بقلم خود

                                                 واثق وجدان
I have clipped this small true story from my friend’s timeline. His name is Wasiq Wajdan. 

Dolat aur aik glass pani

ایک بادشاہ نے اپنی رعایا پر ظلم و ستم کرکے بہت سا خزانہ جمع کیا تھا۔ اور شہر سے باہر جنگل بیابان میں ایک خفیہ غار میں چھپا دیا تھا اس خزانہ کی دو چابیاں تھیں ایک بادشاہ کے پاس دوسری اس کے معتمد وزیر کے پاس ان دو کے علاوہ کسی کو اس خفیہ خزانہ کا پتہ نہیں تھا۔.ایک دن صبح کو بادشاہ اکیلا سیر کو نکلا۔ اور اپنے خزانہ کو دیکھنے کے لئے دروازہ کھول کر اس میں داخل ہوگیا۔ خزانے کے کمروں میں سونے چاندی کے ڈھیر لگے ہوئے تھے۔ ہیرے جواہرات الماریوں میں سجے ہوئے تھے۔ دنیا کے نوادرات کونے کونے میں بکھرے ہوئے تھے۔ وہ ان کو دیکھ کر بہت خوش ہوا۔. اسی دوران وزیر کا اس علاقہ سے گذر ہوا۔ اس نے خزانے کا دروازہ کھلا دیکھا تو حیران رہ گیا اسے خیال ہوا کہ کل رات جب وہ خزانہ دیکھنے آیا تھا شاید اس وقت وہ دروازہ بند کرنا بھول گیا ہو اس نے جلدی سے دروازہ بند کرکے باہر سے مقفل کردیا۔. ادھر بادشاہ جب اپنے دل پسند خزانہ کے معائنہ سے فارغ ہوا تو واپس دروازہ پر آیا لیکن یہ کیا…؟ دروازہ تو باہر سے مقفل تھا اس نے زور زور سے دروازہ پیٹنا اور چیخنا شروع کیا لیکن افسوس اس کی آواز سننے والا وہاں کوئی نہ تھا ۔ وہ لوٹ کر پھر اپنے خزانے کی طرف گیا اور ان سے دل بہلانے کی کوشش کی لیکن بھوک اور پیاس کی شدت نے اسے تڑپانا شروع کیا وہ پھر بھاگ کر دروازہ کی طرف آیا لیکن وہ بدستور بند تھا۔ وہ زور سے چیخا چلایا۔ لیکن وہاں اس کی فریاد سننے والا کوئی نہ تھا وہ نڈھال ہوکر دروازے کے پاس گرگیا۔. جب بھوک پیاس سے وہ بری طرح تڑپنے لگا تو رینگتا ہوا ہیروں کی تجوری تک گیا اس نے اسے کھول کر بڑے بڑے ہیرے دیکھے جن کی قیمت لاکھوں میں تھی اس نے بڑے خوشامدانہ انداز میں کہا اے لکھ پتی ہیرو! مجھے ایک وقت کا کھانا دیدو۔ اسے ایسا لگا جیسے وہ ہیرے زور زور سے قہقہے لگا رہے ہوں۔ اس نے ان ہیروں کو دیوار پر دے مارا۔ پھر وہ گھسٹتا ہوا موتیوں کے پاس گیا اور ان سے بھیک مانگنے لگا ۔ اے آبدار موتیو! مجھے ایک گلاس پانی دیدو ۔ لیکن موتیوں نے ایک بھر پور قہقہہ لگایا اور کہا اے دولت کے پجاری کاش تو نے دولت کی حقیقت سمجھ لی ہوتی۔ تیری ساری عمر کی کمائی ہوئی دولت تجھے ایک وقت کا کھانااور پانی نہیں دے سکتی۔. بادشاہ چکرا کر گرگیا۔ جب اسے ہوش آیا تو اس نے سارے ہیرے اور موتی بکھیر کر دیوار کے پاس اپنا بستر بنایا اور اس پر لیٹ گیا وہ دنیا کو ایک پیغام دینا چاہتا تھا لیکن اس کے پاس کاغذ اور قلم نہیں تھا ۔ اس نے پتھر سے اپنی انگلی کچلی اور بہتے ہوئے خون سے دیوار پر کچھ لکھ دیا۔. حکومتی عہدیدار بادشاہ کو تلاش کرتے رہے لیکن بادشاہ نہ ملا, جب کئی دن کی تلاش بے سود کے بعد وزیر خزانہ کا معائنہ کرنے آیا تو دیکھا بادشاہ ہیرے جواہرات کے بستر پر مرا پڑا ہے۔ اور سامنے کی دیوارپرخون سے لکھا ہے ۔

’’یہ ساری دولت ایک گلاس پانی کے برابر بھی نہیں ہے”

Hazrat Noah’s (A.S) Laws

I love to ready about other religions. So I was just searching random things and then I got a window in facebook about “Sephardi Chief Rabbi Says non-Jews Forbidden From Living in the Land of Israel“. Then from there I read about it so after it, I really wanted to share it with you people. Previously, I also once shared a Kashrut Dietary Law with you people and it was also related to Jews. It makes me so exciting after reading about different faiths and religions. So let’s start this.

First of all, I would like to share these seven laws in Urdu for a quick synopsis of what it is all about.

7-noahide-laws-in-urdu-language

According to Jewish 5 books of Moses (Hazrat Moosa AS), these laws are mentioned in Book Of Genesis. Judaism says that any non Jews living in the land of Israel should follow these rules in order to stay here. It could be like in Muslims Countries, the sharia states that non Muslims should pay Jizya so that Muslim rulers could protect them and their rights. God Knows Best. When you read the below laws, you will realize that these laws are for humanity and could be the best practice in order to keep peace in the society.

Explanation:

1- Do not deny God

Acknowledge that there is only one G‑d who is Infinite and Supreme above all things. Do not replace that Supreme Being with finite idols, be it yourself, or other beings. This command includes such acts as prayer, study and meditation.

2- Do not blaspheme God

Respect the Creator. As frustrated and angry as you may be, do not vent it by cursing your Maker.

3- Do not murder

Respect human life. Every human being is an entire world. To save a life is to save that entire world. To destroy a life is to destroy an entire world. To help others live is a corollary of this principle.

4- Do not engage in illicit sexual relations

Respect the institution of marriage. Marriage is a most Divine act. The marriage of a man and a woman is a reflection of the oneness of G‑d and His creation. Disloyalty in marriage is an assault on that oneness.

5- Do not steal

Respect the rights and property of others. Be honest in all your business dealings. By relying on G‑d rather than on our own conniving, we express our trust in Him as the Provider of Life.

6- Do not eat of a live animal

Respect G‑d’s creatures. At first, Man was forbidden to consume meat. After the Great Flood, he was permitted – but with a warning: Do not cause unnecessary suffering to any creature.

7- Establish courts/legal system to ensure obedience to the law

Maintain justice. Justice is G‑d’s business, but we are given the charge to lay down necessary laws and enforce them whenever we can. When we right the wrongs of society, we are acting as partners in the act of sustaining the creation.

If you like my blog posts, please do share it with the world just to share the knowledge. Humanity is the biggest religion that can be found everywhere. Hatred is not acceptable in any religion. If your religion says to hate somebody, you should probably change your religion.

Content Sources:

  • Haaretz
  • Chabad.org
  • Wikipedia

10 myths about introverts

10 myths about introverts:

Myth #1 : Introverts don’t like to talk.
This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.

Myth #2 : Introverts are shy.
Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.

Myth #3 : Introverts are rude.
Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.

Myth #4 : Introverts don’t like people.
On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.

Myth #5 : Introverts don’t like to go out in public.
Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.

Myth #6 : Introverts always want to be alone.
Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.

Myth #7 : Introverts are weird.
Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.

Myth #8 : Introverts are aloof nerds.
Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.

Myth #9 : Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.
Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up.

Myth #10 : Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts.
A world without Introverts would be a world with few scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors, mathematicians, writers, and philosophers. That being said, there are still plenty of techniques an Extrovert can learn in order to interact with Introverts. (Yes, I reversed these two terms on purpose to show you how biased our society is.) Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ.

(Credit: Carl King, http://www.carlkingdom.com/10-myths-about-introverts)